I tend to speak before thinking, as I am sure many of you do. It is this information that I allow people that always seems to get upset. Would it be best to keep these things to myself, but doesn't that bottle things up inside yourself and change who you are. So we say 'Gaurd your words' allow people to hear the information, but it would sometimes be better if you would spice it up a bit. Or is that telling a lie? Maybe it's not so bad to have people upset with you as long as you are telling the truth. -chowder-